Chapter 1 · Free to read · 12 min
Turn-Off Notifications
WHY
A notification is someone else, human or software, trying to seize your attention and time for their own benefit. Every time you react to a notification, they win, and you lose. It could be a phone call, a message, or an unscheduled knock at your door.
You must recognize that you are not choosing to give your attention to these notifications, they are forcibly taking it from you. Notifications are the master, and you are the slave. To believe otherwise, that you are in control, consciously granting your attention, or any other justification, is to be naive and uninformed.
Doing good work demands that all your knowledge, experience, and skill be laser-focused on the task at hand. You need to be fully immersed in the activity, often called the state of flow, to unlock your analytical and creative potential.
Imagine yourself as a batsman anticipating the bowler's delivery or a goalkeeper preparing for the striker's shot, and your phone buzzes in your pocket. In that instant, you lose your focus.
Irrespective if only take a glance at the new text with one eye, or pull out the phone with one hand, you are likely get bowled out or concede a goal. And certainly, you will perform below your best. A seemingly simple notification isn't simple at all, it's disastrous.
Every time a notification distracts you, your brain must switch contexts. Studies show it can take up to 25 minutes to regain full focus after an interruption. In today's world, if left unchecked, you can be bombarded with hundreds of notifications every hour. Regaining focus becomes impossible, and your brain gets accustomed to functioning at only a fraction of its capacity.
You may not feel it immediately, but by the end of the day, you'll wonder why you feel so exhausted despite being so unproductive. You will blame your boss, your age, the weather, your spouse, or anything that seems convenient. You might quarrel, indulge in junk food, drink alcohol, or find other distractions to take your mind off things. The cycle repeats, and notifications continue to erode your productivity.
Notifications are crafted to be attention-grabbing, trapping you in a dopamine feedback loop, leaving you craving more. Have you ever picked up your phone, hoping for an exciting notification from a loved one, a social media update, or breaking news, only to scroll through dozens, if not hundreds, of texts, reels, and updates?
You eventually put the phone down, feeling tired yet unfulfilled, only to pick it up again minutes later. Over and over, the cycle continues. You might even feel restless when charging your phone, repeatedly checking the battery percentage or refreshing for updates.
Compare this to indulging in your favorite ice cream or chocolate, which leaves you feeling satisfied for the entire day. Notifications, by contrast, are an endless, insatiable addiction. Expecting an addict to be productive? That's being overly optimistic, isn't it?
Notifications, or constant interruptions, condition your brain to expect frequent stimuli, making an otherwise pleasant and privileged life feel miserable. This cycle often leads to depression, anxiety, and various mental health issues.
Your last post didn't get enough likes. Your significant other didn't send a good morning text. Your boss didn't call you for a discussion but had meetings with your colleagues. You are aggravated because these things did happen yesterday or the last time.
Your brain has become unable to exist peacefully without some external disturbance, whether good or bad. A life filled with notifications has trained you to live this way.
Yet life is serene, beautiful, and amazing, if only you could observe it without interruptions.
Finally, notifications overload your existence, drowning your cognitive abilities in a sea of meaningless information. Attention is a scarce commodity, and the world's largest businesses are fiercely competing for it, and succeeding.
Consider the staggering numbers: YouTube (2.5 billion active users spending 50 minutes daily), Instagram (2.0 billion users spending 33 minutes daily), and Twitter (600 million users spending 34 minutes daily). Combined, these platforms account for roughly 3.5 billion hours of engagement every day, a massive collective loss of human productivity.
How do they achieve such mind-boggling levels of attention and engagement? Through notifications.
WHAT
So, we wonder: what can be done about notifications, which are all over us, all the time? First, let's understand what notifications are and where they come from.
A notification is an artificial stimulus that our senses can perceive. Over millions of years, our senses have evolved to detect natural stimuli, enabling humans to respond effectively, a critical factor for survival and success.
However, our senses cannot distinguish between natural stimuli and artificial ones, such as notifications. Moreover, they are powerless to halt the subconscious perceive-think-respond (PTR) process.
In other words, we don't choose to perceive and respond; we automatically PTR, taking action or inaction every time. As a result, the energy and time earlier reserved for life-or-death scenarios is now consumed by thousands of meaningless and purposeless notifications.
No wonder we feel so drained and short on time after a regular workday. Contrast this with our grandparents and everyone before them, who, despite performing more physical labor, seemed to have more energy and time at the end of the day.
Traditionally, we are taught that humans have five senses:
- Sight (Vision) – The ability to perceive light and color through the eyes.
- Hearing (Audition) – The ability to perceive sound through the ears.
- Touch (Tactile) – The ability to feel pressure, temperature, and pain through the skin.
- Smell (Olfaction) – The ability to detect odors through the nose.
- Taste (Gustation) – The ability to perceive flavors through the tongue.
Notifications predominantly exploit the first three senses: sight, hearing, and touch. Once you become aware of the methods and scale of this exploitation, addressing it becomes much easier.
Neuroscience and physiology also identify additional senses, often referred to as sub-senses or distinct sensory modalities, including:
- Proprioception – Awareness of body position and movement, often called the "sixth sense."
- Balance (Equilibrioception) – The ability to maintain balance and spatial orientation, managed by the inner ear.
- Temperature (Thermoception) – The ability to detect hot and cold through specialized skin receptors.
- Pain (Nociception) – The ability to sense physical damage or potential harm.
- Kinesthesia – Awareness of body movement, closely related to proprioception.
- Interoception – Awareness of internal bodily states like hunger, thirst, or heart rate.
- Baroreception – The ability to detect changes in blood pressure.
- Chemoreception – Detection of chemical stimuli, like carbon dioxide levels in the blood.
- Magnetoreception – Some studies suggest humans may faintly sense Earth's magnetic fields.
The exploitation of these additional senses (along with smell and taste) is almost nonexistent today, but it does offer novel possibilities for devices in the future.
Where Do Notifications Come From? About 95% of all notifications come from our devices, with the remaining 5% originating from people physically knocking on our doors or approaching us.
The term device traditionally refers to "a tool or equipment to serve a purpose." However, this definition no longer reflects the modern reality.
A more accurate definition might be: "Anything that captures people's attention to further business goals, using some useful benefits as bait."
Today's personal devices can be categorized as usables, wearables, and smart infrastructure. Usables include mobile phones, laptops, and tablets. Wearables include watches, glasses, fitness bands, rings, clothing, and jewelry. Smart infrastructure comprises items like smart speakers, displays, lights, appliances, and cars. Each device often hosts a collection of apps, which are the primary sources of notifications.
Device notifications can come in groups and engage multiple senses simultaneously. For instance, a phone call or text message typically triggers a visual display (sight), a ringtone (hearing), and a vibration (touch).
Even a single sense is enough to initiate the PTR process. Simply silencing your phone or setting it to vibration mode won't save you.
Notifications feed on themselves. For example, a notification (such as a ringtone or vibration) compels you to read a message (response), which might contain another idea or task (notification), perpetuating the cycle.
Coming to people notifications. Imagine yourself working, and there's a knock-knock: "Got a minute?" You turn away from whatever you were doing, inevitably address the interruption, and respond.
If you're a stone-cold person, you might say, "No!" But more likely, since your attention is already disturbed, you'll say, "Yes?" The person proceeds to share something trivial, which could have waited, but since your time is already invested in listening, you decide to resolve it immediately, saying, "Come on in...".
You may not have a private room and work in an open-plan office. People, impressed by your skills or otherwise, frequently approach you with, "Hi, got a minute?" Out of politeness or helpfulness, you listen, address their concern, and either resolve it immediately or schedule it for later.
Regardless of your response in either situation--whether "No," "Yes," or "Later", the PTR process runs its course, derailing your productivity.
Most people interruptions are non-urgent and non-critical. Unless your only goal in life is to assist others, such interruptions are criminal behavior if your values include being productive.
To maintain productivity, you must shield your senses by preventing non-critical notifications, whether from devices or people, from reaching you.
HOW
Be focused. Turn off notifications. Schedule everything, even the unscheduled. Gradually, the world will come to adjust.
Fortunately, or even miraculously, our devices and apps now include a feature to turn off notifications. While it may seem trivial, much like freedom feels to someone who has always been free, it is perhaps the most powerful functionality these devices offer for living a productive and healthy life.
Unfortunately, every device and app comes with the maximum number of notifications turned on by default. Just once, you need to make the effort: navigate the settings, and turn off all notifications, display, sound, and vibration, every single one of them, including badges and banners.
There's no halfway solution here, you must go all in. It will feel like a struggle, especially during the initial few weeks, but by the fourth or sixth week, the pain will subside, and you will begin to feel so much better.
Don't buy devices you don't need. Owning both a PC and a Mac might seem advantageous, an extra iPad might be useful for travel, or two mobile phones might seem practical for emergencies. Don't fall for it, it will do more harm than good. Stick with what you have or replace devices altogether.
Similarly, a smartwatch does more than count your steps, it comes with notifications for a hundred other things. Wear it for its aesthetic charm during client meetings or dates, but otherwise, remember, a regular person completes 5 km by walking for ~60 minutes or running for ~35 minutes. Skip the gadget.
Stay away from unnecessary devices unless you use them (laptop or sketchpad) for work, and only when working. Keep devices in your bag, avoid taking them to meetings or on walks, and establish device-free zones at home and work. Create barriers to keep them out of sight and out of reach. Absolutely do not place them where they can distract you when working.
Delete apps that are interesting but unnecessary for your work. No matter how advanced or expensive your phone is, pare it down to resemble an old-fashioned landline. Don't aim to maximize the use of your device just because you spent money on it. Instead, use it only for tasks that align with your goals.
By installing non-essential apps like Netflix, YouTube, or Chrome on all your devices, you make it easier for distractions to reach you. This is a terrible strategy that undermines your productivity.
Create barriers between yourself and these apps. Organize them into folders labeled "Work," "Play," "Money," "Idle," etc., so you have to go through extra steps to access them. Empty home screens on your devices. The very presence of app icons leads to cognitive distractions. Use simple, uninteresting wallpapers; even a beautiful trip photo or an AI-generated landscape can steal your attention multiple times a day.
Give people clear guidelines, and most will follow. For instance, I posted a graphic on my office door that reduced interruptions by 90%. Develop your own. If you work in an open-plan office, email these guidelines to your colleagues. Without clear expectations, you leave yourself open to endless interruptions and have no one to blame but yourself.
Just 25 years ago, people used to live and work, like we do today, more often than not, away from their families, friends, and other dear ones. They traveled to visit loved ones quarterly or yearly, spoke on scheduled phone calls once a week or month, and life went on. There was no panic or obsession over what someone was doing at any given moment.
Today, if your partner can't reach you while you are parking in a basement with no signal, they might assume something terrible has happened. If you don't answer after two rings because someone's at the door, they might involve others to track you down.
This is the reality we've created by surrendering our lives to devices and apps, which now control our behavior and punish us for any deviation.
You must take back the control of your life. Educate and train your family, friends, and colleagues to understand that (a) you don't carry your devices everywhere but check them periodically, (b) if you don't respond immediately, you're likely busy, and (c) they should contact you only for urgent or meaningful reasons.
Some people will resist these changes, but those who truly care for you will understand, accept, and perhaps even adopt these habits themselves.
Responding to every call or message instantly sets a harmful precedent. People will expect this behavior from you all the time. Instead, delay responses, even if you are available, to train others to be patient. Respond to notifications in batches, two to four times a day.
Avoid lengthy, unproductive conversations. Limit interactions to meaningful topics, even with loved ones. Associating love with constant communication is a flawed notion. True love means wishing the best for your loved ones, and wasting their time daily with trivial talks won't achieve that.
By turning off notifications, you reclaim control over your time. Now, schedule time to address them in a batch. Here's a suggested plan:
- 8 am to 12 pm: Planned work.
- 12 pm to 1 pm: Attend to notifications (calls, messages, emails).
- 2 pm to 3 pm: Planning, follow-ups, and delegation.
- 3 pm to 5 pm: People interactions (meetings, calls).
- 5 pm to 6 pm: Address unscheduled tasks, if any.
Avoid non-critical personal tasks during work hours. This frees up your evenings for guilt-free personal time. Mixing personal and professional interactions leads to regret and stress, no matter how much you accomplish.
By turning off notifications and minimizing interruptions, you engage with devices, apps, and people when you need them, not when they demand your attention, which is all the time.
Time is your most valuable resource. Develop habits that protect it, and you are on the path to productivity.
These strategies may make you seem anti-social or old-fashioned, but the truth is far from it. The time you save will lead to accomplishments that bring you recognition, expand your social network, and inspire others.
Reject the herd mentality. Swim against the current, towards a pristine and productive life. Reclaim your time.
Turn off notifications.